Dec 27, 2013

New Year old habits?

 Old habits seem to never change. I could never stop eating McDonalds Chicken nuggets. I've been eating these delicious little bites my whole life and only prefer sweet and sour source for the dipping finish. If only the 20 piece wasn't so affordable and full of calories I'd actually see my workout results, the little I do workout that is.  

Favorite new product the eos lip balm... My new best friend. 

Did I mention how fabulous my First Lady was this holiday season, and always actually.

Christmas was everything but entertaining. It was cool to see family, but ill rather be vacationing oppose to being home doing the same ole same ole. But maybe next year I'll travel for the holiday. My niece and I was over it. 

Happy Holidays and Happy NewYear!

Dec 18, 2013

Shoe Doll #1

Hope you enjoy my weekly Shoe Doll of the week were I'll feature a fabulous "shoe girl" who I feel deserves an applause. Our first Shoe Doll selected by yours truly is the glamour doll, model and fellow blogger Natasha (check out her blog here) ,wearing this nice Joanne Stoker pump!

Photos via Natasha's blog here 

Dec 17, 2013


AJ Morgan Large Round Mirror Sunglasses

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Dec 9, 2013

Panda Love

ASOS Jelly iPad Case In Panda Design$27.22

Dec 7, 2013

A Big Block

It's been a whole month, nearly two since I've blogged on this new site I started and also my YouTube page. But I think I'm officially ready to share with you guys my thoughts on life and blah blah blah. Lately I had time to reflect on my life and the next up coming year. I did come across this horoscope in the December issue of Elle ...

"Motto of the month: accept that the one who loves you will one day make you weep." I was unsure as to if it's a good thing or a bad thing. But love in my life right now is ineffective. I'm open for love but not ready for love, if that sounds logical. But In all honesty I'm just not ready. I feel like I have throughout my past daters and sadly-husband-escapers, that in order to have a successful relationship both must contribute equal. Equal in affection, finance (even though I'm only, well more likely open to being with someone who is older and financially stable), and all the other things that make the relationship perfect. Oh and equal to be open to compromise with each other. 

I find it hard for...well let me say it this way. I find other people who judge someone on materialistic things and not the persons personality and character hard to understand. So for someone to not judge a gay male who occasionally wears high heels (prefer 5inches and up platform, oh a boot review coming soon) and carry a fabulous bag or two...or three. But nonetheless just have a fabulous taste in expressing one's mood when the time is right. Without them giving dirty looks or having something slick to say. I think many others like myself just want that supportive partner and I feel that I haven't met this guy and if I had then what's stopping him from asking me out?  Saying all this to say at the end of the day and lonely nights I need to first polish my own trophies before trying to add another to the mantel to showcase. 

Maybe 2014 might be the year... Who knows, but I do know that I'm not picky but I just can't waste my time nor the other person who is interested in myself if at the start of my mornings I'm not a bit interested. I've been down that road before and it's not cool. Having to tell someone after more than a few dates that you weren't interested in them from the start but was too scared or weak to let them know before they caught feelings ain't cool. So I choose to silently let someone know I'm not interested. I do think if you stay friendly and just let them know your interested in other people they should catch the clues. It's just so awkward telling someone oh, I'm not interested because I don't find you that eye catching. Now don't get me wrong, I like my men half ugly and half cute, but it I'm just not attracted, then I'm just not. So I could understand if a guy is not attracted to me physically but to not like me because of my shoes or whatever materialistic is just crazy. 

Anyway, new blog in a couple days, stay tuned. I'm sure you'll enjoy it. 


Sep 26, 2013


Versace Spring 2014 SHOES!

Adore these! 

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Innovative: Burberry Prorsum Spring 2014

Burberry Prorsum runway shows are like Christmas mornings. Your excited and fulfilled by the end of it. Burberry's bags for their Spring 2014 RTW collection was by far epic. I loved every detail and design. Oh how I wish I could have a few of those pastel bags now. 

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Sep 1, 2013

Heels,Heels and more HIGH Heels

I'm going to completely keep this conversation short and simple. Well maybe not as short but I'll shorten the stories a bit. 

As a gay male, I found it scary that women would find high heels hard to walk in and very uncomfortable. Mainly because I always thought high heels on a woman was very sexy. Now me being the very last minute to follow the trend kinda guy, of course I was scared because of what the females I was around experienced with their shoes. After being hugely inspired from Bryan Boy before he was "ANTM Bryan Boy," I'm talking high heel wedge wearing Bryan Boy he inspired me to purchase my first pair of high heel shoes which were these fabulous all black wedges from Forever 21. I remember when I first purchased them I was so scared to walk in them for the first time, and plus being a guy and having people stare freaked me out mentally. But I was already strong enough mentally to walk in my truth, and damnit I thought it was super chic and fabulous, plus it made me taller and thinner. 

(Photo above; maybe 2+ years later after buying them, still in good shape today)

Now I would first like to clear up the misunderstanding from strangers who don't know me and judge base on appearance. Even though I still wear high heels with even facial hair, I get a feeling people think I want to be a female just because I wear the normal girl attire, which isn't true. I just find women's clothes and accessories more fabulous mixed with men's wear, plus most men's wear section in department stores are so blah and limited. Not enough color and selection as the women's department. 

Anyway I as normal as I could be, decided to first wear my wedges out in public for a quick shopping run to Wal-Mart. LOL yes and it was probably to get a movie or some ice cream, and I looked fucking fabulous. I was so scared I would trip and fall but I can happily say as of today I haven't stumbled yet. I was so nervous and at the same time excited to buy more and so I did and eventually started buying Jeffrey Campbell 's Night Walk heel-less shoes in black and turquoise. And they are still today my favorites and easy to walk in. 


Don't try to rush walking, keep it sexy and chic. Never a good look for a woman/man to always look as if she is in a rush and don't have time to enjoy the essence. 

Know your shoe. Know what heel type and shoe works for you. A strong straight heel never is comfortable for me to walk in. I love a curve heel. 

Walk with grace, enough said. 

Understand your height limit. Not ever occasion requires a super high heel. but that's for losers, the higher the better for me. 

Always have a sexy high heel in black, black goes with everything. or Nude shoe.


 September Issue of Vogue Mexico 

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Aug 23, 2013




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Aug 12, 2013

Pause Practice Proceed

When I started this new blog of mine a few months ago, I intended it being very personal. I started to stray away from it being personal to being just like my old blog. I had to take a break and make sure I have everything in order for this blog. 

I decided to take on my own personal 3 P's. 

Pause - Take a break and stop doing the wrong things or the things that aren't making it more rewarding for you to enjoy. Stop doing it and take a big break. I had to do this for not only this blog but my personal life. I took a huge break on my life to help others and I realize while in college I never took a damn pause, I worked and worked and went to school. I kinda loved that rush of knowing I had something to do rather than nothing at all which is where I'm stuck now. My friends often envy my position while I envy theirs. I would love a steady 9-5 job which they all have, but then again I am my own boss and don't have to answer to anyone but myself which I enjoy a lot. But I feel like what I'm doing isn't all that I have to offer to this world. I'm very talented in other things other than sewing and designing. 

Practice - I had to step back and organize the goals I want to accomplish in my life. Sort term and long term while still being realistic. Its like college all over again, dong homework and having to analyze things, but this time its your life. Get your life in order and on the path you want to ride on. I vision this fabulous life I want to live but it'll never become reality if I just stay stuck. 

Proceed - Through it all you must proceed when its hot. I think in life it throws some heavy shit at you sometimes and you have nothing left to do but clean it the fuck up. Which could be draining and shitty, but you get through it and finish. You proceed with your head high and being the true you, living in your own light. Proceed even when others doubt your success, even when others try to stop it, just continue even if you fail and fall down 100 times. Just proceed and learn from every mistake. 

Jul 9, 2013

Beyonce covered in glitter!

Beyonce covers another magazine this year and this time, she went full speed ahead. Flaunt magazine's new cover girl "King Bey"  has paid her haters dust, well glitter to be fabulous. I find this new Beyonce very free. Very to say and do whatever she wants, why you ask? Because she is grown and can do whatever she like...hehe. I'm loving this cover and the editorial is to die for. Super chic and fabulous. 

Beyonce by Tony Duran For Flaunt Magazine July 2013

More on this issue over at Flaunt Magazine

Jul 8, 2013

Say No! RIP #foodporn

So I haven't weighed myself since December 2011. I recently did and I could have died. I never weighed this much and was shocked because my comfort level goes by my feelings. I could careless about a weight size, if I feel good I'm going with that. But it was a weight limit I said I didn't want to be over and I'm officially over it. Its time to say no to this fatty food I love! ah sad day in #foodporn.

R.I.P to these wonderful dishes I've had lately...

Its time to walk it out bitches!